so i found this quiz on a friends wall on FB...here are my results...i almost fell off the couch when i read them!!
you can find the quiz at www.colorquiz.com
Your Existing Situation
Desires to be respected by others in order to gain their trust and support for her own personal gain.
Your Stress Sources
"Always trying to make a good impression on others, but doubtful she is succeeding. Feels she has the right to everything she hopes and dreams of and becomes annoyed and helpless when things don't go her way. [yes, i would agree i am somewhat spoiled...but thats my parents fault! hahah] Is troubled by the very thought of failure which leaves her feeling miserable. Always sees herself as the victim as if everyone treats her poorly and she never is given her fair share. Feels her failures are no fault of her own, but due to the shortcomings of others." [k, this part i don't agree with because any problems or 'failures' i've had are my own fault and my own doing..nobody elses....so :P ]
i know...i totally contradicted myself here...and yes, you can laugh...i did !
Your Restrained Characteristics
Current events leave her feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation.
Applies tough standards to her potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in her sex life. [true]
Current situations force her into compromise and placing her own hopes and desires on hold for the time being. [i agree wholeheartedly..but its for an excellent cause..:)]
Your Desired Objective
"Longs for tenderness and for a feeling of acceptance from a partner.dont we all? Appreciates things that are beautiful, pleasing to the eye, and stylish." again, don't we all?
Your Actual Problem
Disappointed because her hopes have not come to pass and she fears coming up with new goals will only lead to further disappointment. These conflicting emotions lead to a feeling of anxiety and depression. she tries to escape [hahahah don't we all?] into a peaceful and calm relationship which offers encouragement and protection from further disappointment.
Your Actual Problem #2
Lack of energy leaves her unnoticed to pursue further activities or demands placed on her. she feels powerless which leaves her agitated and depressed. Tries to escape from her struggles by searching for peaceful and restful conditions in which to relax and recover in an atmosphere full of security.unfreakingbelievable to say the very least!